It’s My Facebookaversary

On June 19, 2010 my life forever changed. I know that sounds dramatic…but…that’s the day I finally joined Facebook! I’ll admit, I was NOT on the FB bandwagon when it was first introduced to people of a particular age (as in my friends). I’d seen and heard about the infamous “inboxing”. I’d seen it capture and corrupt the attention of someone I knew well, and not in a positive way. I’d heard about the “mess” that ensued as people expressed their thoughts, two cents, opinions and unsolicited advice. I just didn’t want any part of it.

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However, since posting my first inspirational quote and the first pictures of a photo shoot of my sister as she was about to POP just before giving birth to my new niece, to sliding in a few “my husband left me a few months ago and I’m going to smile and show off my long hair as best I can” photos, Facebook has become my way to connect/reconnect with SO many. What a wonderful seven years it has been catching up with, and getting to know you all on Facebook, then slowly inching my way to the likes of Instagram, Twitter, WordPress, Pinterest and Linkedin.

(See my first two profile pics…Whew! That girl was doing everything in her God-given power just to smile. I’m proud of her!)

Social media is a powerful tool, people. I’ve seen it be a blessing to me and so many. I’ve sadly seen from a firsthand perspective how it has been used to divide and misguide stirring up the most seemingly uncontrolled spirits of division, comparison, jealousy, low self-esteem and plain ol’ meanness that I’ve seen in all my life.

For me, I’d like to think Facebook and its friends to be the place where I can laugh, cry, learn and “like” all in one post. It’s where my words and videos live whether they come at 3am in the morning or in the middle of a meeting where I should be paying attention and can’t, and where my blogging bug took over. It’s where the most beautiful babies, weddings, proms or parties light up a feed. I’ll admit, it’s also where my investigative eyes roamed, or my “I’ll show you what you’re missing” pictures/posts prevailed. It’s where I learn of my favorite concerts coming, shows to watch, and new words to say (or not say…like On Fleek…LOL!) It’s where my eyes are opened to the social, civic and political climates of this wild and wacky world in which we live. It’s where my mind is challenged by people who I didn’t even know could think so very deeply. It’s where I rep my school…Roll Tide!

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It’s where I’ve been consoled and console as life’s tragedies, divorces, death, physical challenges and trials are not just shared, but covered in serious prayer. It’s where my memories in pictures live, not just for today, but for the tomorrows when those pictures may be all someone has. It’s where my spirit is fed as I have soooooooooo many Jesus loving and inspirational, regardless of their faith, friends. It’s where my relationships are restored (Hey, today is the day I reconnected via a FB request with an old boyfriend from the 90s turned good friend named Aquil…and look at us now! Happy “we met again on Facebook” Anniversary, husband!). It’s where a middle of the day meme can send me into the most uncontrollable laugh just when I need it most. It’s where my fashionistas serve up couture and discount offerings like a Waffle House waitress working for her biggest tip. It’s where at-home-cooks and diners-out post food pics or restaurant recommendations that make me salivate like a toddler in a dentist’s chair. It’s where people share their lives as much as, as best as and as often as they can for those in which they care to connect.

Despite any of the negative which transpires on my timeline from time-to-time I’m grateful for the family and friends who bless me each time I scroll my timeline. You are my inspirations! Keep up the great posts!

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@AngelaMichele316

She Said That…Again

Facebook’s handy feature called “On This Day” is such a treat. It allows you to look back in reflection of things posted on this day. I enjoy seeing old pictures, seeing what I was praying for, reading what was on my mind, seeing who I connected with as FB friends and getting an overall glimpse of who or what was occupying my mind on this day.

On this day, April 12th, the following is what I had to say, with perhaps the most profound being my Waffle House wish:0

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I was up this morning considering some pending things I need The Lord to do for me soon and with favorable certainty.
My quite time was interrupted by loud sounds of chirping and quacking. I looked outside in the front and backyard to see several different birds, ducks and geese having Sunday breakfast compliments of whatever my ground was providing.
It hit me. God will not allow others (birds, ducks, and geese) to dine off of what’s mine without making sure I’m able to feast as abundantly off of what’s His.
That’s good news!
The moral of this message: God’s got this, that, them, you and me too!!!! ‪#‎pleasebelieve

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Hello TODAY! I’ve been waiting on you:)

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I wish Waffle House delivered!

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Butterflies and buzzards don’t fly together and that’s fine. Both have a purpose, one is just prettier.-Angela Moore

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Stop looking like where you are unless you plan on staying there.-Angela Moore #biggergreaterbetter

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I’m connected to so many blessed men & women! Monday we shouted & “shook bangles” for LaTanya Jones Moore!!!! Today we’re celebrating with Dru Harris Ealons!!! “Who got next?!?!?!” Is it you???? I don’t mind bringing up the rear:) #andthepartydontstop

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So MANY great things are happening in the lives of those I love. Even in the midst of their adversity God is still showing Who’s the Man! I’m so excited and so expectant about what is to come. I don’t mind celebrating your victory like it’s my own!!! #havepraisewillPARTY

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She Said That

Facebook has granted us this little dozy of a treat in the form of the “On This Day” button. By simply logging on, clicking the button and scrolling the page, one can now see what one posted on “this day”.

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It’s amazing to me to read each day things I said each year. Wow! My thoughts, emotions, focus, humor, situations, pictures and musings have been about as mixed up as a bag of assorted nuts, in a good way, or course. There has been a lot of consistency shown each year with many things staying on the radar. There has been lots of growth. There have been times when, in retrospect, I now say, “Who or what made me say that?” There are times when clearly I reserved discretion and didn’t speak my mind. (Go Girl!) There have been commentaries on pop culture, awards shows, cute men, music, family, friends, work, church, clothes, and of course food. One thing that’s been present every day is a sign of my faith, especially on days when I clearly recall it being tested.

So in the spirit of the shareage here’s what “She” as in “I” said on this day… (Side note…Notice how long I rocked with Blackberry. Geesh!!! I held on to the very end. #soloyal)

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I saw a sign on 65-N this morning blaring in bright lights that we are 17 days away from Christmas.
I got excited, not just about food, and gifts and time off, but because of the birth of Jesus and this season of miracles.

Idris Elba is simply scrumptious , so captivating and speaks that real, “good English”smile emoticon

1032 people saved during the “At the Movies” series at Highlands! Go Jesus!!!

Nothing says “hot Saturday night” like homemade chili, grilled cheese and a Duck Dynasty marathon:)

Oooohhhh my…I’m not eavesdropping, but this conversation behind us at the restaurant is funny, sad and shocking all in one. I wish I could temporarily shut my ears off, but I can’t stop listening!

May the ONLY weight your heart feels this holiday be due to an OVERFLOW of love, laughter, gratefulness and peace.

Poof! Be gone to: worry, stress, loneliness, fear, financial despair, overshopping syndrome, depression, isolation, hopelessness and any other joy-jackers in your life!-Angela Moore

Find something in life to laugh about!!! I’m not talking a mere giggle, but a deep down, from within, can’t hold it in if you tried, infectious kind of laugh. Good clean humor helps! #YouDeserveJoy

Sometimes you may not feel like speaking to someone. Do it anyway:)

“Fail? Who me? Never again! Life made me grow up and now I know that failure is not an option. I was born to succeed even through struggles. I may get knocked down, but I’ll get up better than before. Others may not get it, but I got it. What I know now that I wish I’d known then is either I WIN or I WIN! For me that’s the only way. Just check my resume. Winning is in my DNA!”—Angela Moore

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Facebook Wasn’t Made For That

I’ll be honest. I wasn’t a fast fan of Facebook when it first made its options open for non-collegiate grown folk like me. I’d heard of the damage done to relationships where affairs and the likes were allowed to live, and I’d experienced firsthand a person I knew become consumed with it spending far too much time attending to “the book”.

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Well, in 2010, I decided to bite the bullet and join Facebook in an effort to stay connected to those I would know longer see on a regular basis due to my divorce, to connect with new and encouraging associates and to reconnect with those I needed for my awesome at times, and not so much at others, new journey. Since that time, I’ve become a fan of what I once seriously/jokingly referred to as “the devil”, recognizing the powerful potential Facebook offers to foster healthy relationships, stay connected, get important messages out, build business, provide laughter, promote encouragement and the likes. I’ve also noticed some things that I’m sure Facebook wasn’t made for. I’m not talking about the  typical ease with which illicit associations and drama that puts “Empire” to shame can occur. I’m not talking about the bitter and very vocal hurting woman or man who uses the “Book” to continually put her/his child’s other parent on blast. I’m not hinting at the scantily clad photos or rants that should literally and figuratively disappear (but won’t because once it’s out there it’s out there). I’m not speaking to the cyber-bullying which should cease immediately. I’m not even referring to the poor grammar which pains me to my core each time I scroll by it. I’m speaking to the self-inflicted hurt which causes humans to question themselves or question others based on what someone posts. And while this effect is not at all caused by Facebook, it is certainly conducive to breeding unwarranted anger, misplaced hurt, self-doubt, or distrust if there are internal issues which allow it to do so.

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Again, there is much to say about social media and the damage it can do in the hands of hurting humans who use it irresponsibly. However, there is much good which has come about as well. Now, I’ve not spoken to Mr. Zuckerberg (yet), but I can imagine, after having seen the Social Network movie with my friend-in-my-head Justin Timberlake in it, that Mark didn’t create Facebook for any of the following:

  • Facebook is not made to make us feel left out, excluded, forgotten, ignored or unwanted when we see pictures and posts which may not include us. (It’s just not, and that’s as plain as I can put it. There are a myriad of reasons for things, none of which should ever have us feel bad about ourselves or feel bad about those who truly care whether we were invited or not. Read my blog to find out why: https://angelamooreblog.wordpress.com/2013/02/27/i-dont-want-to-come-to-your-stinkin-party-anyway/)
  • Facebook is not made to have us scroll through posts and feel somebody else’s life is better than ours. (Every single body goes through something. We can’t let the ability to smile, laugh, mix or mingle (even through pain) fool us into thinking there’s something wrong with us because of what we perceive to be right with others.)
  • Facebook is not made to have us scroll through pictures and posts and feel somebody thinks their life is better than ours. (They may feel that way. If so. Pray. On the other hand, they may simply just be glad to be alive and want to share it with their world.)
  • Facebook is not made to make us compare and compete. (It was made to like, comment, share, post, friend, follow, defriend or unfollow. We can’t let a spirit of comparison ruin the beauty that lingers within Facebook or any form of social media.)
  • Facebook is not made to make us. (It’s social media, which means it in no way, shape, form or fashion rules or reigns over the other amazing aspects of our lives. It should not be our only source of “go-to” communication. It should not take the place of good, old-fashioned chit-chat. It should not be where we post important things, hope others notice and get upset if they don’t. It should not define us based on likes, friends, followers or requests.)

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@AngelaMichele316